The vagina is as magical and beautiful as a unicorn gallivanting through a sea of daisies on a warm spring day.
Therefore, the vagina should be treated as a magical and beautiful creature: with care, love and endless devotion.
Women going through menopause experience vaginal dryness due to hormone changes; anti-estrogen medications used to treat endometriosis can also create vaginal dryness; and some report vaginal dryness as a side effect of anti-anxiety medications. Sometimes, even with no medical explanations, they just don't get as wet as you (or your partner) would like.
Thankfully, you don't need to rely on natural lubricant, because there are plenty you can buy.
This is Cunnilingus 101: your ultimate guide to going down on women.1. If she seems to like one thing over another, do whatever that is and don’t stop. Bend your fingers up in a “come hither motion.”Right behind the pubic bone you’ll feel a walnut-textured patch. It’s simple to find once you reach in there because you can actually physically pull a woman once you’ve hooked your two fingers under the pubic bone. It adds a sense of fullness that a lot of women love and there are a ton of nerve endings to be found. You don’t need to feel pressured into trying something else.
But not every woman enjoys G-spot stimulation so pay attention to her vocal cues and if she likes what you’re doing.3. Trust me, if you’re licking her clit, she is bored.
And no matter how many times you've done this, it's still important to replicate this environment with each new partner (like we said, everyone's different).
That said, it's also helpful to establish a baseline of fingering skills.
Sure, the vagina can seem a little intimidating, but it really is easy to understand once you get the hang of it. I’ve got some cunnilingus tips for beginners, hot off the press. Trust me, she will be really impressed that you care so much about making her come. Experts agree with me that oral sex takes time and patience. The most common question I’m asked about the vagina: Where the G-spot?
But let’s face it: about 98% of us need to read this article. If she is making sounds of pleasure, that’s a good sign. Trying to go down on a woman in the same furious way you jack off will not produce a female orgasm, you got it? When you’re facing the vagina, slip your middle and index finger into the vaginal opening, palm up. To stimulate the G-spot, rub in circular motions or simply apply pressure.