I truly value my happiness and value as an individual.
So a shoddy treatment of me from someone who claims to love me is not on. I am dealing with rejection, emotional abuse and co-dependancy. Totally not looking for anyone he walked up to me and I thought hey he’s cute let’s give it a go.
He has a habit of responding late or worst not responding at all to my messages and he has his reasons. Been there recently and if i put my logical head on I realise hes got lots of Issues.
But, I’m still not use to it and it worries me every time. Im very upset but Im trying really hard to work on myself and confidence and self esteem I hadnt relised how men and women think so differently and Im 60 Regards xlizx My guy has been incognito for a little over two weeks now. So last time i heard from him was a non response to my messages.
If not, read this next: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This... After that weekend, he never contacted me or we haven’t talked.
Not until the holidays when I sent a greeting for the holidays.I have felt the beginnings of self doubt and sadness; and even anger.But i stop them from becoming full blown by reminding myself that if his reason for disappearing is because of his unwillingness to support me when i’m going through a stressful time, do i really want that kind of relationship?OK, so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolutely must initiate contact.He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you.The worst possible thing you can do is take it personally and start beating yourself up over it.This will eat away at your self-esteem and will repel any new potential suitors that might come along.I know it’s hard to accept, especially if you really liked this guy, but you really do need to just trust that it’s for the best.Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you anyway? You want to be with a guy who can’t believe his luck that a girl like you would choose him! He may have left you, don’t let him take your dignity with him.If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!He wouldn’t have come up with a list of reasons to never see or speak to you again, and proceed to never see or speak to you again.