Hint him that you might like to get back together, but don’t attack him about it. Look, if you’re serious about this guy and you really want him back in your life, then you must change.Now, it’s time to actually get back in touch with your ex.It depends; maybe you didn’t see each other, or talk, for months, or even a year.So, find out what messed up your relationship and work on it.Were you too cranky, moody, jealous, demanding, insane, nagging-all-day, not giving him his space and freedom, disrespectful, got fat, made out with another guy, or you just sucked in bed? He needs to see that, after a month or so of breaking up, you are progressing; suddenly you became a different person. Once he sees how much different you became he’ll wish you never broke up in the first place, he’ll want to give the whole thing another chance too.Maybe you just broke up two weeks ago and everything is still very emotional and fresh.Either way, you can’t get back together with him over the phone, so you need to see each other.Don’t talk about what happened in the past with him. Listen, sure, finding some new dude may be okay for you as a bandade, but it won’t help you get your ex-boyfriend back. Like, he should see that there are guys mingling around you, but don’t let him see that you’ve actually found someone.Don’t post stupid, drunken-party pictures on Facebook of you making out with some random dude.It’s just the first step, but it’s a crucial one – ’cause now you’ve got your foot in the door. The second step to getting your ex back is forgiveness. Did you cheat, did he cheat, did the love evaporate, or you got bored, what is it? Forgive yourself if you’ve made mistakes and forgive him, you are both guilty in one way or another, and reminding each other about it won’t help.You’ll never be able to be together again if you can’t forgive each other. It doesn’t really matter the point is that you give each other a clean slate. You can’t get back together if you are enemies, so stay close to each other by forgiving. Every day is a new opportunity for you to have a better life with a great guy, maybe it’s him – and now that you’re starting over, you’ve learned from your mistakes, but you can continue on only when you manage to forgive.