You think I’m kidding, but I know you know I’m serious or you wouldn’t be reading this right now.You’ve gone through a horrible, traumatic breakup with an emotionally unavailable guy that broke your heart and whether you’ve done enough things to cause drama/embarrassment or it just hurts too much to be “friends” with your ex or you’ve both agreed to go your own separate ways or whatever the case may be – you’ve stopped communicating and are in no contact. You don’t want to hear from him, but then again, you do. It’s like a drug and you’re going through the most excruciating withdrawals. You never thought he could just cut you off so easily and you see him living his happy life on Instagram in the Valencia filter with some random chick that looks like everything you aren’t and whose profile is private.
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Those questions have taken up more of my time and brain power than I ever think I’ll be comfortable enough to admit.
Yeah, I get that you’ve lost your mojo and your ego is shot because you’re feeling rejected, but if you keep seeking validation from someone that isn’t even able to give any to himself, you’re going to end up always looking to other people and possessions to dictate your worth. You’ll then need others to validate your observations and decisions because you’ll be in a state of fear-based paralysis (inaction/stagnation) in your life and wonder why nothing ever works out for you.
If he REALLY misses you in the kind of way that you deserve to be missed, you will know and not have any doubt about it. He won’t send a text, email or passively “like” one of your photos so you can spend the next week analyzing the why’s. It won’t matter if you’ve cut him off or if you’ve blocked him on everything. I went through the same thing but it was with his 30 yo niece and his 50 something year old sister. But he ended up paying all the rent, got food, took his nieces son to doctor and took her to doctor and to work and to wherever else she needed to go.
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