Please make use of them if you are the type of person that would be upset by an uninvited Private Message.
So, if you feel that a decision has been made that has been unfair to you, you do have the right and opportunity to appeal such a decision by sending an email, with any appropriate information, to the Managers and Owners of KC for review.
We cannot guarantee that we will reverse such a decision but we will certainly review the case and then base a decision upon the information that was provided by you, as well as by the member of Staff involved.
Please respect others so that they may, in turn, respect you.
Keep it friendly and your chat experience, as well as that of your fellow chatters, will be a good one.
If you come into possession of personal information of another chatters, please be discreet about it.
Any and all use of the personal information of others will result in a serverban from Kinksters Chat.
So, if a member of the KC Staff speaks to you because they feel that you are in breach of KC rules, you must comply with their request to cease and desist whatever activity they are asking you to stop.
Failure to comply with such a request will eventually result in, either, a) your ability to talk and move around the server being removed for a period of time, b) a temporary ban from the channel in question or c) possibly a temporary ban from the entire server. We DO understand that mistakes can be made, we're all human after all (apart from maybe the Furries : P).
We do NOT have a rule against unexpected private messages, as such a rule cannot be reliably enforced.
However, if you are receiving such messages, we invite you to make good use of the "ignore" function.