and for the record, I don't mean the BDSM community... And a dominant alpha male also gets to pick and choose his woman or women... so you hve to have what he's looking for in the first place.... I thought in your first post that you stated "in your opinion" and natural dominant alpha male would not be attracted to a submissive female? That would put all sexual experiences in to one category which is a natural reaction from someone who has not experienced anything first hand. However, none of the things that you listed above is part of my sex life. WHY would you need to just hint around about it here in this world? There are are many different styles out there, like there are stars in the sky.
It might help if you explained exactly what you mean by "a natural dominant alpha male". There are even Dominant men who are not into BDSM at all (I was married to one). My message was vague, because I knew only a certain few would understand what I may be hinting about. Just state what you want on one of the "specialty" sites, and then take your time weeding them all out to find the "natural real" ones, who IMO don't have to TELL you that they're "natural" and "real".m_church, your post really confused me. And just because people dont advertise it doesnt mean they dont know bout it or cant relate. hehehe..:)Just come out and say what you mean and mean what you say. If you're asking where do you look for such a thing..
A man who makes most or all of the decisions in your relationship, including where to go and when? What is telling is that someone tried to have this thread auto-deleted. I would say there is someone out there that wants to be "dominant" but doesn'twant to talk about it. Are you asking is there more to your vanilla life for a man to see other than work, kids and social events? Otherwise, I don't understand what you're getting at..would like to help. Yes, how do you approach the subject when dating that you are looking for a Dominant man that is NOT into BDSM? All these kind of things are on the two sites I mentioned where you fill out your profile explaining what youre looking for in a relationship. Most of D/s relationships have to do with the "natural" order where the man leads and the woman follows. Not everyone is dressed in gothic black with spiked hair. open your front door and look left, right, and straight ahead. you just can't be coy about what you are looking for and expect the whole world to understand what you want.
It certainly doesn't mean that you are in to hardcore BDSM. All I know is that if a woman wants to be dominated I'll be happy to tie her to the bed and have rough sex with her and every penetratable opening in her body, but she's gotta look good with a ball gag in her mouth and she's gotta thrash against the ropes like she really wants to get free. Once the handcuffs are on, we are not done until I say so. take Vixen and Sugah up on their offer to help if you don't want to clarify what you are trying to find out with your very confusing questions.
Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself not to feel guilty about being tied to the bed, with nipple clamps, a ball gag and prodded with a taser in all the right places. just make sure he doesn't set the voltage too high, it might result in an unwanted hairstyle. A natural "Dom" doesnt have to tell you..a "natural" subbie doesnt have to. All I know is that if a woman wants to be dominated I'll be happy to tie her to the bed and have rough sex with her and every penetratable opening in her body, but she's gotta look good with a ball gag in her mouth and she's gotta thrash against the ropes like she really wants to get free. Once the handcuffs are on, we are not done until I say so. I'm thinking you are confusing BDSM with only hard core S&M, and there is a whole lot more to it than that.
However, I can see how a male who is a wannabe domininant might like a submissive woman to make him feel like he is an alpha male...
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