If that is how a woman views online dating, I often wonder why they do it?So if a big part of a womans concern is what kind of men are so crazy, why wouldn't they for 20 or 25 dollars a month, buy a throw away cell phone for dating?I then want to get a sense of that person, either on the phone or the meet(date) about whether they are safety minded, or paranoid.
The cost is less than a few drinks in a bar per month. No woman could possibly be that cheap, as to utilize this as an easy solution could they? in the past 7 months for medical bills since my knee injury and there's no sign of those costs letting up plus I may need surgery, I really don't have an extra . I haven't worked during that time (except from home since I'm on crutches) so yeah, we're not all as blessed as you to have extra money for several cell phones for internet dates.
Sometimes it takes a few dates before the crazy comes out so again it's a matter of deciding whether or not to give the person your number. Even given that though, unless someone was bat-sh1t crazy, I wouldn't need to worry.
I can't change my number because I use it for work and I can't possibly contact all the people who have it to change it. Now for women, it's a different thing, many claim guys are crazy, obsessive and angry.
Over the 20 minute call, to get to know each other better, he told me about his heart surgery 6 months ago, how he had run out of benefits as work and lost his job and income, how his unemployment benefits were about to expire, that in the next month he needed to find a cheaper place to live (already in a lower priced rental area), that he used the library internet connection because his land line and internet TV were cut off and so on. I expect to be able to make calls, as well as receive them.
The only questions he asked me were regarding being a homeowner, number of bedrooms here, how many bathrooms, you're getting the picture. Following the call, I messaged him, wishing him luck and saying that at this stage, I thought he had more then enough to deal with - and the abuse started. Now, it's one thing to 'stand by your man' but another thing to be expected to finance a complete stranger. If I can't call her, I'll just pass and tell her I'm not interested.