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Then like clockwork, while texting one of my sorority sisters, she pointed out that I don’t need to have a love life, but rather flings.So here I am laying in my bed, listening to "Only You" by Yaz (yes, the song is older than I am) thinking about love and dating. I am like a deer in the headlights when it comes to figuring out how guys think and operate.When our strengths and weaknesses are different, we can strengthen each other in the areas we’re weak in. She should also be passionate about the things you value most: God, academics, helping people, etc. Then you can be the definition of cool, which is making others cool. You impatiently stand in the blistering heat with the other graduates, waiting for the sweet relief of sitting in the shade.

Then like clockwork, while texting one of my sorority sisters, she pointed out that I don’t need to have a love life, but rather flings.So here I am laying in my bed, listening to "Only You" by Yaz (yes, the song is older than I am) thinking about love and dating. I am like a deer in the headlights when it comes to figuring out how guys think and operate.

This list works wonders for me, but I can't guarantee it will do the same for you simply because you are not me.

However, just slightly tweak the questions to better reveal the desired characteristics you're looking for.

I’ve been dating an amazing spiritual girl, so I can speak from both sides of the coin: how to mess up in a relationship and how to mess up when you’re single (I consider myself a master of both).

And some (like me) more than all others…But I’m here to tell you that there’s hope!

At the tender age of 19 my hormones were raging -- but they had been since I was 13. The word ambivalent doesn't begin to describe the experience.

When we had to work for it (Skype, email, video messages, etc), we treasured what the other person said more. Studying electronic flashcards for their next psych test? What I mean is that on Valentine's Day, you can't go off of love or casual crushing alone. There's plenty of fish in the sea for college dating, but don't let the pressure swallow you up.

Diversity is good – college is the perfect time to make lots of different kinds of friends and learn how to build real relationships. And, be confident in the friendships God is helping you build!

Plus, desperation smells like my 7th grade locker room: bad.

Authenticity is the greatest thing you can bring to the table. “Being yourself” doesn’t mean you don’t have anything to work on in the relationship.

Just don’t use it as an excuse to be inconsiderate and do whatever you want.