The big difference between a regular club, and a swing club, is having the freedom to do what you really want to do.Find someone you are attracted to, and play with them.You're either single and lonely or married and miserable." The Lifestyle offers a third more realistic approach.
As membership grew we started having parties every Saturday.
Next we tried Sunday swing parties that single males could attend. A recent survey said 20% of all married couples are swingers or have tried the lifestyle.
When the space was rented out from underneath us by a big company we threw lifestyle events in a few places downtown before we found the building we are in now.(See the page.) It has AC, separate rooms, and parking. We are constantly trying to improve the club and hope it's a comfortable place for you to enjoy your lifestyle.
Club Joi started gradually with 1 or 2 events a month.
Club Joi is the perfect Lifestyle club for beginners and more experienced swingers to meet.
The club offers the ultimate setting for exploring Fantasies.Once a line communication is opened, a deeper trust ensues, and the couple becomes even closer. The Swing lifestyle should be a joyful experience for both partners.The uninformed may think a swing party is a "free-for-all". Many couples start as voyeurs and gradually work their way toward the full swing experience.Acting as both an erotic dance club, and as an on premise swing club.Couples new to the lifestyle will soon find erotic dance parties and swing clubs make regular vanilla clubs boring.They realize attraction and lust are natural, and their partner is here to stay, as long as they can be honest and communicate their desires.Sexual attractions come and go while true love remains. Long term relationships and Marriages are difficult for everyone. Most people go to Lifestyle / Swingers clubs to enhance their love life within their relationship.In fact they will probably get as excited as you are, after all, most people have entertained the thought of swinging. A surprising number of Wives are the first to bring up the lifestyle. They enjoy a sense of freedom they never thought possible.What loving Husband wouldn't want his Wife to experience that, and what Wife wouldn't appreciate a Husband who gives her that kind of freedom. You should never feel like you are required to do anything you are not comfortable with at the club. Not about being forced into doing something you are not ready for.