I know that’s how mainstream society portray a good lover, but that is also called being submissive in bed!
Take responsibility for your bad choice, learn from it, and move on with your life.
As long as you are being a good dominant figure and things are all under control: When those off-limits things happen, stay cool and firm, explain what she did wrong and punish her.
Use her elbow to direct her smoothly in the right way.
When you stand still side by side, put your arms around her by crossing her shoulders or neck.
Don’t hold her strong enough to inflict pain, but she needs to feel your strength.
She needs to feel that you could crush her at any moment, but because you are in control, and because she is yours to love, you will never harm her, and you will only use that physical strength to protect her from any danger. That’s where the gentlemanly door-opening thingy comes in; you’re always walking slightly in front of her, thus removing obstacles from the way.
If she is disrespectful or starts showing signs of unacceptable behaviour, immediately end the current activity and remove all the attention you have on her.
She instantly becomes unworthy of being noticed by you. Do not react to her drama, just calmly ignore her existence.
Besides, do I really need to mention how having a fit, well developed muscular body will give you an amazing edge?
Just get the spartan training program and follow it, you lazy fuck. The best way to reward women without creating yourself problems in the future is by praising them and giving them more attention.