After he runs into you, he’ll think “Gosh, she looks amazing!
My suggestion, from a male perspective, having sex immediately once you meet up again may be a wrong choice.
Even if you’ve been together for a long time before, it’s good to make everything seem new, and different. Be sexy and provocative, but don’t sleep together the first time you meet to “catch up” and see whether he also wants to get back together or not. Drop a hook, and make him feel horrible when he sees how much you’ve improved, how well you are doing, how sexy you look and how your life is taking another direction. He knows you and he’ll know whether you’re full of crap or not.
Then again, don’t be clingy and don’t call him every day after that – love all over again – instead, take your time. You had sex, but do you want to get back together or not?
Let him wonder and guess, let him compare you to other women he might have been with since you were apart.
Maybe you just broke up two weeks ago and everything is still very emotional and fresh.
Either way, you can’t get back together with him over the phone, so you need to see each other.
Changing may not be easy, but it’s necessary if you want your relationship to be better than the last time. If you keep doing what you’ve been doing – you’ll keep getting the same results.
So don’t expect a happily ever after, supercool happy ending if you aren’t willing to do things differently than you did before, otherwise you’ll just end up breaking up again.
I’ll assume you’ve decided that things can work out between you and him, so now, the question is – what can you do so that he believes in your relationship too? This can be a huge motivator to any guy to get back together.
As mentioned above, you need to be better than what he remembers you to be. It’s important that you don’t see each other for some time, and then once you do – he is just blown away by how much prettier you’ve become.